I think the key to struggling through singleness within a church context is to have a mission and vision for the church where singles fit in; and singles need to have a mission and vision where the church fits in their lives too!
A good theology of Singleness is going to marry nature and grace so the single person’s struggle is comfortable always coming back to his grace and staying there. They, nature and grace, are one!
Obedience to the bible helps too 😉
Just watch the video: